Did you ever experience a crush? Have you ever kept your breath away when seeing the one, thought of one person all day long? I bet you did. I believe we all have been there at least once and as you may predict my friends, I am going to share now a story of my crush.

It all started a long time ago and I don’t even remember how. What I remember is how charming he was.

When I met him I was engaged with someone else. Not to be tempted by his amazing self, I deliberately avoided him for months. In the meantime, I entertained myself imagining his amazing personality, extraordinary intelligence, and our bright future. You know, classic crush related bullsh*t.

As the time passed, he got transferred to another country and disappeared from my life. Recently I meet him again.

As my relationship status has change and I became single, having in my mind words ofΒ  Matthew Hussey*, I decided to make a move.

An idea was to make it casual and breezy (a perfect example of a breezy conversation HERE). I made a joke, I mentioned something about his hobby and giggled. And than, when it was about to get interesting out of the sudden he appeared to be a total douchebag.

The conversation between us:

He: I earn shitloads of money but need more shitloads of money. I don’t have many hobbies apart from going to snobbish parties, where I spend my shitloads of money. I won’t ask anything about you, cos you are already into me and I am so flipping amazing. What is your name, btw?
Me: ? (sound of crushed glass bubble I have seen us in that I heard in my head HERE)

Could I be more disappointed?

And so there was no happy forever after part for us, but this story ends as a fairy tale anyway. (A video of me with my friends reacting to the story HERE)It ends with a moral. I have learned with it that firstly I should not judge a book by the cover. And secondly it is better make a move and discover the disgusting truth than live in a world of imagination. A princess (yes, I am referring to myself as a princess) learned her lesson and now she is smarter (hopefully).

This is a story of my crush. Do you have similar experience? Or maybe the opposite ones? Let me know in the comments below.

Stay awesome,

*The pain of rejection is nothing compared to the pain of regret.

STARRING: denim LEVIS (more with it HERE)/top ZARA/shoes DEICHMAN (more with them HERE)/bag TOPSHOP(more of it HERE)




  1. Great story, although the result wasn’t as you have imagined. I completely agree with you, it’s better to make a move and give it a try than to keep dreaming about it. Now you are free to move on to something new πŸ™‚

    Also love your outfit! Have a great weekend!


    Seize your Style

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  2. Gurllll I had so much fun reading your blog! Definitely, had a crush-turned-out-to-be-a-douchebag moment!
    Recently I met a guy and I even rated him 9/10! But he turned out to be so full of himself which I further fed his ego, and he was sooooo boring to talk. So anyway, looking forward to reading your blogs!
    Love Xo,

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